Not Your Average Preacher……

My Pastor is the first someone that I thought of who demonstrates competent communication within the religious context. He has worn many professional hats in his youth and even now in his tenure. He is a certified classroom teacher, a certified family and marriage counselor/psychologist, and an ordained pastor and bishop. I consider him to be a great communicator. What makes him so effective you may ask? Well, take a look at the following list:

1.  He listens first.

2.  He is charismatic in his approach, capturing the hearts of the people he ministers to.

3.  He seeks to get an understanding before speaking or responding.

4.  He is not judgmental.

5.   He makes eye contact that is nonthreatening.

As a daughter, sister, wife, mother, friend, and early childhood educator, I strive daily to model the communication style that he has. I want to convey and receive clear and concise messages, understanding, a positive message, and a true heart and ear for listening. This well hell me to have positive relationships with everyone I know and work with.